Saturday, January 19, 2008

The Biggest Loser

I think the title of this blog is perfect. I have been the biggest loser with this blog. I can't believe I haven't posted in a month. Shame on me! I promise I will do better.

Life in the Varner household has been pretty busy. During the whole month of December we were going non stop. Between work, physical therapy for my knees, and getting ready for Christmas (we had my family at my house), we had little time for play. Jarod took off a week around Christmas and it was nice having the 3 of us together. We just hung out and played with Allie. She and I had a few play dates with her friends Gabby and Cade (I'm friends with their mom's and the kids were all born within a month of each other). Jarod, Allie and I took a trip up to Memphis to see our good friend Keith graduate from college. We got to hang out with him and Courtney (his wife and my best friend) for a few days. It was a great trip. I miss them so much and I wished we lived closer together, but we are really good about taking turns seeing each other. Christmas at Varner house hold went very well. I was a little stressed, but I think everyone had a great time and it was good to be with my family.

Since school started back I've been as busy as ever. I think by far I have worked harder this year than I did my first year of teaching (4 years ago). Our district and the state have put so much pressure on us this year. It has gotten so bad that we had a teacher retire mid year (granted she was 70 years old; no I'm not kidding and she should have retired several years ago), but she just couldn't handle it anymore. No one blames her. She is two times my age and I'm having a hard time with all of the new expectations. I have honestly never been more ready for a school year to be over with.

I will find out later this month or early February if I will need knee surgery. For those of you who do not know, I have runners knee in both of my knees (which is pretty funny b/c I don't run). I was in therapy for a month and unfortunately, my right knee (which is the worst of the 2) does not feel any better. My knees flamed up when we went to New York last June and I have been battling them ever since. I go back to the doctor at the end of the month and we will discuss what we are going to do. I know that I will have an MRI done to determine how bad my knee is and then we will go from there.

Jarod is still keeping busy with work and running. I can't believe how much he runs these days and right now it is freezing outside. I'm so proud of him. He is looking into running another 1/2 marathon sometime soon.

Allie is now 21 months old. I can't believe that she will be 2 in a couple of months. She is getting big so fast. She has changed so much in the last couple of months. Her speech development is improving daily and she is getting very good at saying 2 and 3 word phrases and she has thrown in a sentence here and there. She still loves to sing and dance. Her favorite songs right now are Baa, Baa Black Sheep and Old MacDonald. She will pick up a block that looks like a cylinder and use it as her microphone. She is now attached to her Mimi and Poppy (my parents). She cries whenever she has to leave them. It's the saddest and sweetest thing to see. She is still very independent and very stubborn. She tests our parenting skills daily! Our church is about to start a parenting class one Sunday a month and Jarod and I are going to check it out. It can't hurt and we will take any advice people would love to give us. It's based on Love and Logic and I've heard very good things about it. Jarod and I enjoy spending as much time with her as we can. She makes us laugh all the time and is such a joy to be around.

2 comments:

Meredith Braaten, CD(DONA) said...

Yipee! I'm so glad to see a Varner update as I check back often.

Where is your church? My girlfriend, Amy, just started teaching Love & Logic parenting classes at hers. Wonder if its the same?

We're up for more playdates. Just let us know. Allie is such a cutie...personally, I LOVE hanging with her!!

Emily K Adams said...

I miss you guys!! We've been sick at our house, and traveling with Christmas, December was kind of a blur:) I'm sorry the school year is so rough!!